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Swing Clubs And Breakups, Father-Daughter Sex, & How To Have Safe Double Penetration

Swing Clubs And Breakups, Father-Daughter Sex, & How To Have Safe Double Penetration

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Dear Ms. M,

I’m trying to get over a vicious breakup with my boyfriend. Should I go to a swinger club and have a random hookup/threesome? It’s something I’ve fantasized about and they say the best way to get over someone…

-Miss Hurt and Horny

Dear Miss Hurt and Horny,

Are you doing this threesome swinger club thing in the least bit out of spite? If so, I wouldn’t do it. Do you think this vicious breakup is a part of the on-and-off cycle, or is it over for good … for sure? If it could possibly be back on, I wouldn’t do it.

There are definitely situations where getting under someone is the start to getting over someone else, or as the band Peaches puts it, “F*ck the pain away.” However, I can tell you from personal experience, not all fantasies turn out the way we expect or imagine.

You could luck out and meet hot couples at the swing club, but that is so not typical. Chances are, the expectations of what you’ve imagined won’t be met, and you’ll find yourself feeling a void the next day, one that may only seem to be refilled by that vicious ex-boyfriend you should totally steer clear of. But then again, slim chance you might get lucky. It’s a gamble.

I’d advise to experiment and act out fantasies because you’re ready – not reactionary. Be patient and premeditate ways for a more favorable outcome. See if there are any private exclusive swing parties that screen people first. You could also post a few adds on hook-up websites, initiate conversations to gauge compatibility, and then meet for a drink in public before committing to anything. In other words, do your homework. It’s better to wait for the odds of a good experience than having a bad one. Just going out and doing it when you’re emotionally vulnerable will likely leave you more emotionally vulnerable the next day.

In the meantime, jam-pack your schedule to stay busy and forget this f*cker! There are so many other fun crazy things you can do to expel your angst and energy (like peeing in a taxi). Use your imagination … just don’t get arrested.

At the end of the day, you know yourself better than I do. If you think you’re ready to jump into that threesome at a swing club (for you and not out of spite), then do it. Just be aware, be safe, and don’t knock it if it doesn’t go well the first time you try it.

Best of Luck,

Ms. M.

P.S.  Here’s the above referenced Peaches song, F*ck the Pain Away.  Dancing releases feel-good endorphins that will boost your spirits.  Get to dancing!

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Hello Ms. M.,

I know this is going to sound really awful but I need your help. I was 14 when my adoptive mother died. After her death, my adoptive father and I began a sexual relationship. I think it was how we both dealt with it. He took my virginity when I was 15 and the relationship has since continued. I’m now 24. I have struggled with the morality of it for many years, but we aren’t technically blood related. I don’t have romantic feelings for my dad, just sexual. Two and a half months ago I started dating a super great guy. I’m pretty sure I’m falling in love with him. I’m scared I will devastate my father if I end our sexual relationship or if he even knows I have a boyfriend. Help.

-Confused

Dear Confused,

You refer to him as “father” and “dad” in your email, so that trumps whether or not you’re related by blood. Adopted or not, it was extremely wrong of your father to do that to you and rob you of your innocence and your own self-discovery. Now you’re grown and left in a very painful and unfair predicament.

While your father may have left a deep imprint on your sexuality and feminine identity – in addition to taking advantage of you – you’re a grown woman now. It’s time to take responsibility for your own choices and your own life. If your father were any other f*ck buddy you didn’t have romantic feelings for, and then you started falling in love with someone else, I would advise you to end it with the f*ck buddy. 

You MUST end this relationship with your father. Sure it might hurt him and it might even be painful for you, but you will never be able to have a happy healthy relationship with any other man (or yourself for that matter) until you end this one. MAKE THE BREAK! It’s time to move forward with your life. Keep in mind you’re going to go through a healing and learning process once you’ve ended it, probably re-processing all that has happened to you.  Have patience and be compassionate toward yourself. Find a good therapist to help you through the process. Remember, the right thing to do is usually not the easiest. My thoughts and love are with you.

Love Always,

Ms. M.

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Ms. M.,

I’m gay and recently started hooking up with a hot couple.  They are both tops for the most part so I take turns with them and love all the action I’m getting.  They have been together several years so they don’t use condoms with each other but I still require that they do when they’re with me.  I’ve always had a fantasy of being double penetrated and we’ve talked about it.  They proposed both wearing the same condom to do it butt I’m afraid it will break.  Suggestions?

-Bottomless

P.S. I love all the gay friendly stuff you post!

Dearest Bottomless,

Thank you, Darling!  Five gold stars for being so adamant about using condoms!  Try a much bigger female condom for the both of them.  That should hopefully solve the problem. 

Best,

Ms. M.

 

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